Tuesday, October 25, 2016
Decisions submission for 2nd Assistance Dog Blog Carnival
Decisions submission for 2nd Assistance Dog Blog Carnival
In October, I wrote a submission about The Two Most Important Firsts in my Service Dog Journey So Far for the 1st Assistance Dog Blog Carnival and now I am faced with writing another one about Decisions for the 2nd such event, hosted by Dogs Eye View. I find that I am overwhelmed with possible topics related to the many important decisions I have had to make since first considering whether a service dog would be beneficial in my life.
However, in order to submit an entry in keeping with my blog, Ive decided to write again about my decision to get a puppy this summer when my current service dog, Laurel, was still young (4 years old) and working. This was a truly momentous decision largely because I was so opposed when I first starting considering it. As difficult as I had found the process regarding whether to get a service dog to begin with, I found the one about if and when to get a successor even more emotionally charged and heart-wrenching. And at first, I found it impossible to even consider getting another dog because all I could think about was that doing so would mean Laurels retirement and eventual death. My service dog trainer, Sue Alexander suggested I consider it; other service dog handlers who had suddenly lost a young, working dog recommended I think about it and many of my dog-training friends who had seen how hard Laurel worked for me thought that I needed to look into it. Additionally, since Laurel does 3 medical alerts, each of which began as natural alerts and no one knows what allows or encourages dogs to do alerting, our hope would be that Laurel would teach the next dog. But for the longest time, although I knew that it might be the smartest thing to do, I couldnt get past my denial over Laurels aging - I think there was some illogical thinking going on that if I didnt prepare, Laurel would never grow old, need to retire or die.
One of the important decisions we had made when we originally decided to try to raise and train my own service dog was to switch from our breed of choice, Standard Poodles, to Labrador Retrievers. Although I had grown up in a SP kennel and my husband is allergic to dogs, we had many reasons for making the switch - Labs are easily recognized by the general public and are accepted as service dogs; although the breeds are generally the same size, Labs are much sturdier and stronger and Labs are "wash and wear" while Poodles are grooming-intensive. Since they are both water retrievers, I hadnt anticipated how different the breeds are and Laurel spent her first two years hearing me complain that she was not a Standard Poodle. Since then, however, Laurel and Labs in general have grown on us and I realized that I wouldnt want any other breed.
At the same time, because I knew I couldnt get another puppy from Laurels breeder (she has retired), I had contacted Labrador Retriever kennels in about 5 states around us and in Canada. I had heard that some breeders wouldnt let their puppies go to become service dogs so I thought I might need to develop a relationship with a couple breeders in order to have them see what kind of a life my next service dog would have. Although I didnt have any breeder refuse to sell me a puppy outright, Im pretty sure the one who priced hers at $3800 or more wasnt real interested in me having one.
When Laurel was young, we became friends with Amy who had a lovely yellow puppy, Georgia, from a breeder, Donna Reece, about an hour away from us. Amy introduced us to Donna at the big Crown Classic dog show several years ago and although she was busy showing, we had a lovely talk and I was very impressed with her dogs. Since then, I have had the opportunity to see a number of her puppies and young dogs and have been very impressed. I have continued to talk to Donna and a comment she made was responsible for letting me get beyond my denial to make the decision to get a puppy. We were discussing everyones suggestions to me about getting a puppy sooner rather than later and she said that it sounded like Laurels job had expanded to more than what one dog should be expected to do (with the 3 medical alerts plus mobility tasks) and that I should look at getting another dog to become her partner first and not worry about it being her successor. I am sure that is what everyone else was trying to tell me but Donna was able to do it in such a way that it became a positive instead of a negative.
With that new mindset, I decided to go ahead and start looking for a puppy.
In the months prior to actually looking at litters, I went through many of the same processes I had prior to getting Laurel. I reviewed my needs, our living conditions, my breed choice and our finances etc. Then I decided which breeders I wanted to deal with - Donna Reece of Ridge View Labradors and one other that another friend had referred me to. Because I determined that I wanted help getting a puppy whose temperament would make it easier for him or her to be a service dog than it is for Laurel, I arranged with Sue Alexander to come temperament test some puppies at the beginning of June. She found my boy, Hardy as the 11th puppy tested and although he is the wrong color (chocolate instead of yellow) and the wrong sex; he appeared to be the perfect puppy for me; something which still seems to be true even though he is currently a persistent adolescent!
Ive already had reason to be grateful I made the decision to get a puppy. Hardy alerts on his own now and like Laurels, it is predictive and accurate. I fell on the ice recently when I got out of my chair to pick up after Hardy at the class I teach. Since Laurel was at home, he alerted on his own and was very persistent in making sure I understood and took my meds. Over the past several days I have continued to have pain and muscle spasms and have been thrilled to watch my two Labs work together to have at least one of them with me, laying across my legs. They actually do seem to split the work on watching me; with the one who is "off-duty" able to rest or play. This is everything I had hoped for but certainly more than I had ever expected!
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